You already know your rage isn’t caused by anyone, and instead it's from inside you, just getting ignited by the simple things your children do that drives you nuts. 

And still, no matter how many times you catch yourself..

Or how many times you wish you had a place to give your rage an outlet..

You still end up feeling the pressure build every time someone has a tantrum or something gets spilled or you just wish you had enough time to go pee. 

This work isn’t about learning how to pause.

It’s about learning how to support yourself deeply enough that pausing actually works.

✦You are here because:

• You feel exhausted all the time, meanwhile you always thought you would cultivate a home full of curiosity and connection. Even the bare minimum like making breakfast and doing the laundry feels like it’s draining parts of who you are away, and all that's left is a tired shell that gets frustrated over every little thing because you just want to lie down.

• You already admit you are often overstimulated, but you want to break the cycle of what should and shouldn’t be allowed inside their childhood. You want them to feel safe enough to playfully scream when they are so excited or silly they can’t hold it in, make messes in the name of discovery, and be close to you when they need you, while also still trying to teach them boundaries and how to respect you and others.

• You feel disconnected from yourself, your body, and your instincts as a mother, but you're ready to come back into yourself so your responses start coming from presence.

• You’re honestly terrified that one day, your kids will flinch when they look at you. 

Your desire for change is tied to the dread you feel every time you quietly ask yourself:

• What if I can’t ever stop the cycle, and this is just who I am as a mother?

• What if my children start to flinch when they look at me, and I damage our connection forever?

• What if I keep losing control and never feel like I can truly trust myself again?

The truth you’re living now is you’ve spent your whole life trying to be the calm one, the nice one, the “don’t rock the boat” one. 

Even as a kid you got comments like “wow you’re so mature” or “you’re so well behaved”.

Or

You were raised to be responsible for adult things like cooking, cleaning, and childcare of others early in life, leaving you with expectations that your child operate like you did, even though you want to raise them differently. 

Either way, we all know… 

Motherhood exposed what your childhood taught you to hide.

Now though, there is a safe way to figure this out!

✦ MORE MOMENTS LOOK LIKE THIS: 

• Connecting with your kids without the tension of waiting for the next eruption, so you can actually teach them what you are wanting from them, staying present through the mess, the questions, and the pushback instead of rushing to control it just to make the feeling stop. 

• Safely validating the energy of the rage within you, while responding grounded in patience, calm, presence, and the embodiment of the mother you want to be rather than trying to manage your emotions while parenting at the same time.

• Remembering during the heat of the moment that emotions are just energy-in-motion, so you get to release the guilt you feel and take a pause immediately.

• First, without sacrificing your values or abandoning yourself, you feel steady within and from that place you’re playful and present, connected with your kids and the mother you always envisioned yourself to be.

This is the transformation you’ll experience inside The Pause Portal

✦WHAT THIS IS

The Pause Portal is a 5 week one on one experience for mothers who are ready to change their patterns in real life.

This work shifts how you show up under pressure, how you meet your emotions, and how you lead your home when things get loud, messy, and real, and all without doing it alone. You can come to me  with your questions, your big rants, and the overwhelm, and we will  work together  to regulate your system back into the drivers seat.

The training resources are open-access for life, do it at your own pace to integrate to your busy mama days, and a space for mothers who already pause, but want to understand what’s actually fueling their rage, and build enough internal care, safety, and trust so they can meet intensity without fear.

Learning to trust your emotions instead of stuffing them down.

✦ HOW IT MAKES A DIFFERENCE

Pause doesn’t make you calm all the time. 

It makes you capable in the moments that matter most.

✦ WHAT YOU GET

✧ Private 1:1 Mentorship inside an Intimate, focused guidance in a dedicated Telegram container.

Vale: $2000

✧ Lifetime access to the current and any additional resources inside the Telegram thread library

Value: $1500

✧ Simple, easy to access google docs with all the steps for the Pause Method laid out in a way that makes it easy to remember, practice, and embody into the way you respond

Value: $750

✧ BONUS: A 30 minute activation call with me at the start of our weeks together! This bonus is only available until August 16th!

Value: $350

Total value: $4600

✦ TESTIMONIALS FROM THIS WORK:

“I stepped into The Pause Portal because I could feel both my kids and I deserved more than me trying to break generational cycles on my own. I became a parent before I became a mother, when I started raising my godson 5 years ago. This is when the rage started building in me, from lack of privacy, having to build a routine into our day to day life that included entertaining and having the responsibility of parenting an 8 year old… was jolting and drudged up a lot of unresolved childhood things I could understand, but felt guilt for. Now I have my daughter who is 3, a pre-homeschooler, and I’m running 2 businesses on my own; I felt the same rage percolate when she’d push me, yell at me “mommy” repeatedly, or throw her food. So to say, I’m so glad I joined Sadie when I did, is an understatement! It’s all for my kids… and I now have a grip on why I’m pausing, and I’m learning what to do with the energy that comes up from my gut… instead of letting it boil over as ‘mad at my kids’ - because underneath it, I’ve always known that wasn’t all of it. I’m proud of this step to move beyond just admitting it quietly to myself and allowing myself an outlet and opportunity to process this reality for those of us parenting differently while reparenting ourselves too. I hope other mothers find this work and apply it, the peace of mind is on the other side."
- Maria Galyean

“I’ve become more aware of when and why my rage is bubbling up, and have paid attention to the needs behind it, tending to them to the best of my ability. My kid has been really intense and simply asking him what he needs opens a window for us to meet each other at our own level. He can verbalize better because he feels heard and seen and if he needs to hit or bite we’re now finding ways to release that energy in a healthy way” 

“I see myself like the full embodiment of a woman who has been through some fire, and came out whole on the other side. I love this space. It is about how you're becoming really real as a mom.” 

“I found it quite astounding that our words have power, and the more I tap into that truth, the more conscious I'll become. And how I'm using my mouth? My tone of voice and how it's affecting my son. I've broken generational curses.”

“I felt this complete inner shift. And trusting that what I'm doing and how I'm showing up and what I'm choosing is right for me”

When you catch yourself saying, 

“Something needs to change”

I want you to know you are not broken and rage is not the problem; The avoidance of that emotion is what’s hurting you. 

You deserve to be seen Mother to Mother… Avoidance is the resistance you cannot name and I’m here to say “Shame is not necessary”

You were never taught how to feel it.

You were taught to run from it.

When you learn to pause your sacred rage, not silence it, you'll begin to understand what she’s been trying to say all along:

It’s Time!

This is where the alchemy begins. 

When you stop fighting your fire and start learning from it.